Hey Laina and Traveller!
I hope both of you get a chance to read the discussion page. It definitely has helped me understand more of who we are. It is a bit to read from the beginning but I found it really worth it.

I don’t think anything we say in this forum could be dangerous. In all honesty, most people really just wouldn’t understand or even care about the way we feel. It is hard for them to comprehend any of this. So if any outsider read most of the content on this website they would be pretty baffled. Just consider this place a safe haven. We are all alike in some way or another. We all have great understanding and we don’t judge.